During this evaluation this week I came across some interesting view points on my communication styles from my colleagues and friends. I was also shocked at how hard I am on myself when it comes to communicating. I've realized that sometimes I try to hard to talk because I'm use to keeping everything in and that can sometimes come off as clingy. I thought it was interesting how others thought I communicated affectively when I literally have to look up things to talk about sometimes or how to deal with my anxiety of talking to a group of people. I have to admit it has gotten better working with kids and having to talk all the time, I still have my moments but the shell is broken. I do think I still have a ways to go especially when it comes to the many ways of listening, but I call myself a work in progress.
1."We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.” -George Bernard Shaw 2.“Play is the beginning of knowledge.” -George Dorsey When I was younger play was a major part of my daily routine. I was barely in the house growing up, if anything I never wanted to back inside when the street lights came on. I learned so many rights and wrongs from climbing trees, riding my bike in the street, missing curfews, having play dates also taught me social skills as well. Parents always wanted the kids out the house, because sitting in front of a screen wasn't teaching them what they can learn from experience. Now a days it's a rare chance you see children who actually want to go outside and play, and that's all because of the time of techonokogy. Parents need to watch how much time they are letting their kids be on these tablets, cell phones, and computers.
Great post Angelique! I was moved from the start as I began to read your post. I really do not believe people (in general) understand how hard it is to communicate; and how to do it right. When we converse, we simply have to be ourselves and work around our unique style. As educators, we will get a thumbs-up for taking this communication class, I am sure, as we are all a work in progress, Angel. Thanks for sharing!
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